Part Two: How to enjoy that life and more, Finale

Well, this is my last thing to remember before I go:

Rule Nine: Is it okay to Flirt?

One of my Google plus buddies felt bad about flirting and saying he wasn't a good friend, in which isn't true. I have dealt with flirting twice, and in the end I didn't accept it at all. I reject them.

It's okay to flirt once in while, but don't over-do it or people will see right through you. And calling you names of who you are. It's alright, don't make it the end of the world thing. It's natural to feel a certain way. And Here's  what you have do:

*Be okay for who you are: There's nothing wrong with, in fact you are just being straight up with yourself... And admitting it too can also bring that weight off your back and mind.

*Don't feel bad: Seeing what's going on with you? Isn't anything to be sad about, just smile because in the end of the day you will have a 100% pride. And  being proud of your acceptance in your lifetime.

*Accepting the real you: That's something to be happy about, now you can accept the real person you are meant to be.

*And always smile: Admitting your true colors is how your friends can be happy for you, nobody will judge you just gotta feel confident to say in a proud voice. It helps you out.

Rule Ten: The Holiday blues

In the Single life, there will always be ways to avoid them, and even if we'd wished we weren't Here.

"I'm hear to say is "STOP!" We cannot control about the holidays or the people that has a lovely relationship with this certain person. It's their life, not yours. For years, being single has always been a target for holidays, I didn't enjoy like: Valentine's Day, New Year's Eve, and even Christmas, in which loving it. It's been a struggle to feel like the world has abandoned you for these holiday crisis. What is it that prevents us singles to have fun?

*Stress
*Anger
*bitterness(in which matches up to anger)
*Misery
*Sadness

These are the 5 reasons why we can't enjoy ourselves anymore.

And here's how to avoid them:

*Instead of Celebrating Valentine's Day with your friends, wear purple to make into Anti-Valentine's Day

* fix the Christmas diner, and then open up the presents to avoid mistletoe kissing. And look out the window.

*Just Stay home at the New Year's Eve, or go to a public place to celebrate it alone.


*Avoid the couple outfits for Halloween for those who has a problem with Halloween, and wear your outfit to the party and make an excuse to leave early.

If that doesn't feel right, and you can't do it... Just enjoy yourself with friends and family.

Finale Are you ready to say Goodbye to being Single?

Well.... If you're prince/princess asks to take it slow for years ahead of time, that means this is the final time to be single and you're ready to settle down at last. But there are some or many singles who refuse to give up the Bachelor/Bachelorette life, that's fine if you don't wanna be in a relationship, nobody is rushing you.

All my life: I had dealt with rejection, pain, shame, and loneliness. But, in these times that I felt truly alone, I've come to realize that my Family, Friends, Church family are there when no one else will, push come to shove that it's okay to be single, because life will be hitting you hard when you're at least excepting the hard world that we live in our whole lives; so don't go on it alone, there is alot of people who will understand your situation and hard times of becoming a single person.

But..... One day, we all will have someone in our every day life! Don't give up, and just enjoy being single,because who knows how long we will have it. ~Have a great week! :)