With people trying to fake say the descendants 3 is coming out in 2018; more each wrong move and anger people being wrong the more it's unmature comments will follow. For example: Mrs. Jessica Stern thought the show has to be next year in 2018, she didn't get the whole picture wrong and blocked me. There is right from wrong information that will get you hurt.
So in my advice, look through the conversations and through the thinking.
Is she right or wrong?
I will finish this topic until Monday afternoon.
Monday, September 18, 2017
Wednesday, September 13, 2017
Mystery Guy
To finding the road of your love that doves can make relationship
It's like working out a true case of a crime, love isn't always the first choice
but in haste, I run into dead end, wishing to escape; more came to follow me and never leaving me alone but continuously stalking me like a blood wolves chasing a dead animal down on it's tracks.
In my finest hour, there was no end to my hurt and scornful pain. And every hope became more faithful in this hopeful belle of the ball to find true love. Who was this amazing guy who stole my heart and never breaks it? I dreamt this man in my life who knew me and love me for my personality, sweet and caring heart. I felt like a princess who found it's true fiery prince in the light from the darkness.
To reveal his true passion for flirting an innocence of a beautiful girl. And to it's beautifying majestic flowers in the fall weather, and without no warning flowers began to die and dry out. And there's no words towards the scarce of what had happened or not. Today, I still wonder what's my future man of mystery will ever show?
To put into prospective, not one soul will ever like me, or will there be a mistake made? Where is this Mysterious man who I can call love and true fire into the darkness.
So Please just think of this poem, and maybe one day sell my poems into a story.
It's like working out a true case of a crime, love isn't always the first choice
but in haste, I run into dead end, wishing to escape; more came to follow me and never leaving me alone but continuously stalking me like a blood wolves chasing a dead animal down on it's tracks.
In my finest hour, there was no end to my hurt and scornful pain. And every hope became more faithful in this hopeful belle of the ball to find true love. Who was this amazing guy who stole my heart and never breaks it? I dreamt this man in my life who knew me and love me for my personality, sweet and caring heart. I felt like a princess who found it's true fiery prince in the light from the darkness.
To reveal his true passion for flirting an innocence of a beautiful girl. And to it's beautifying majestic flowers in the fall weather, and without no warning flowers began to die and dry out. And there's no words towards the scarce of what had happened or not. Today, I still wonder what's my future man of mystery will ever show?
To put into prospective, not one soul will ever like me, or will there be a mistake made? Where is this Mysterious man who I can call love and true fire into the darkness.
So Please just think of this poem, and maybe one day sell my poems into a story.
Wednesday, September 6, 2017
The locations of finding which culture that you love and choose as a soulmate?
Ladies, Gentlemen.
My Name is Latasha, and yes being single has it's very strongly strict. But there's one thing that gotten me to realize that if love can't be reached then we will fall short on it; but when I went to Hawaii to go on Vacation, I felt very welcomed and how much? I liked Hawaiian Ambassadors , the culture, the beauty, creatures and beautiful paradise. It made me appreciate paradise and weather scenery. Lots of Women and Men dream of a perfect or lovely soulmate right? But in order to find a great vacation, there's location, location. But before you do that, you must do three or more information about the culture before you go on the trip:
1. Research
It's knowing who or where to find a great vacation.
2. Learn the dance and crafting history
It's a great way to understand the international or United States agriculture, the history of that specific place. And with that, also meaning learn how to better respect of it.
3.Is it the true love of it?
Sure, we think we found the love of our lives, right? why I don't know but the truth of it is there will be a spark in this special occasion?
But if you're going in for the vacation then do it.
By now, people nowadays will want sex not dating or anything. It causes not to date but make it into a dramatic dead end relationship. But of course, we feel that it's not our fault, it's just not working. So ladies date a guy who respects the culture and love them as they are. But it's up to you what you want. For me, to post more blogs let me know.
My Name is Latasha, and yes being single has it's very strongly strict. But there's one thing that gotten me to realize that if love can't be reached then we will fall short on it; but when I went to Hawaii to go on Vacation, I felt very welcomed and how much? I liked Hawaiian Ambassadors , the culture, the beauty, creatures and beautiful paradise. It made me appreciate paradise and weather scenery. Lots of Women and Men dream of a perfect or lovely soulmate right? But in order to find a great vacation, there's location, location. But before you do that, you must do three or more information about the culture before you go on the trip:
1. Research
It's knowing who or where to find a great vacation.
2. Learn the dance and crafting history
It's a great way to understand the international or United States agriculture, the history of that specific place. And with that, also meaning learn how to better respect of it.
3.Is it the true love of it?
Sure, we think we found the love of our lives, right? why I don't know but the truth of it is there will be a spark in this special occasion?
But if you're going in for the vacation then do it.
By now, people nowadays will want sex not dating or anything. It causes not to date but make it into a dramatic dead end relationship. But of course, we feel that it's not our fault, it's just not working. So ladies date a guy who respects the culture and love them as they are. But it's up to you what you want. For me, to post more blogs let me know.
Friday, September 1, 2017
Ladies, be cautious of who you like because these men will never give up!
As we Women, take a step to make a choiceville, the first thought in your mind is " Did I really meant it or I'm making a terrible miserable mistake for saying no, maybe it's time to say yes to this guy so he will leave me alone already"? And to that I say NO! You are the strong voice in your own conscience, not every women in this world today are getting hurt and brutally harassed by violent men, whose value to women are sex, human trafficking, and even a target for older men; For years, I felt like older men are looking for young love not old love it's crazy, but it's the truth. Have you ever heard of Evan Marc Kutz? Here's something to be happy for, but this man is the understanding, caring person who will help us women to end our Why bother syndrome , and then of course don't even try to go on Facebook too, there's danger towards the social media, I'm not saying don't go on Facebook, I'm saying don't fall for a guy if he wants to be "More than friends line or seeing the say on his comments." Don't trust it, I say trust Google+ friends, I did because it's like the trust and eager to listen. And yes even friends, family, church friends, and many more will help you choose what is right from wrong.
Here's my quote: " Patience is a true happiness, don't feel left behind when things don't go well... Love is something to put faith and hope so Don't give up true queens and princesses there is a happily ever after story in going to be open in a chapter book, what are you waiting for? Don't let your heart be exposed, let your heart soar and burn like a sparking flying eagle." ~Latasha
Here's my quote: " Patience is a true happiness, don't feel left behind when things don't go well... Love is something to put faith and hope so Don't give up true queens and princesses there is a happily ever after story in going to be open in a chapter book, what are you waiting for? Don't let your heart be exposed, let your heart soar and burn like a sparking flying eagle." ~Latasha
Thursday, August 31, 2017
Never act out as a fake or a villian because I'm none of those.
People always judge your temper or your moods, in therefore calling you a bully or a fake? Let me answer your questions, no, never or just yeah a lot. Well, for me I had to change my profile picture and my status, but do you know what? Everyday people who know me will be very helpful and sometimes it's making it harder and hardiest thing to do. I felt like I didn't belong to Google plus because of my attitude, but the truth is... Being a good kid who needs to be understanding not misjudged by those who will never know the truth. I'm going to give you a lesson.... Never answer any posts for three or even twelve days until this drama blows away. As a kid, I had a great life, but then this bully label came up on different social medias.
Never go on a social media if people aren't going to care if you exist. Trust me, I've gotten that feeling right now, but if you don't show up at all. People will be less and less victimized by your fake accusations. Don't be the victim, be the warrior and ignore trolls that will never touch you because the reality has hurt us, but not who we are made to be. Be the person who has to put or fed up with people who can easily destroy your defenses so they can be better than you. You need a mantra like this I'm better than this, don't let people push you over.
Who knows, you might figure out one way to end this false cyberbullying once and for all. If you want to do this by explaining this to people do it, or just ignore the comment and leave it alone. Nobody deserves to be harassed or being fake because they're not real just demons in the shadows.
"Never underestimate your power, show whose boss and never let people get you wield up because you're weak, but in the reality you're braver than you know". Love yourself and ignore all the haters you're perfect in your own persona not because of the labels in which isn't real.
Never go on a social media if people aren't going to care if you exist. Trust me, I've gotten that feeling right now, but if you don't show up at all. People will be less and less victimized by your fake accusations. Don't be the victim, be the warrior and ignore trolls that will never touch you because the reality has hurt us, but not who we are made to be. Be the person who has to put or fed up with people who can easily destroy your defenses so they can be better than you. You need a mantra like this I'm better than this, don't let people push you over.
Who knows, you might figure out one way to end this false cyberbullying once and for all. If you want to do this by explaining this to people do it, or just ignore the comment and leave it alone. Nobody deserves to be harassed or being fake because they're not real just demons in the shadows.
"Never underestimate your power, show whose boss and never let people get you wield up because you're weak, but in the reality you're braver than you know". Love yourself and ignore all the haters you're perfect in your own persona not because of the labels in which isn't real.
Monday, August 7, 2017
Stop asking for a lover just wait and your true love to be here.
Hello everyone,
My name is Latasha Hall, and I'm going to tell you about the 5 ways of stop this relationship stress or begging to be in a relationship so you won't have a painful heartbroken
1. Try to write some details on that one-day soulmate, instead of asking or begging on social media, it's considered to be an affection disorder or affection fansty
2. Don't always believe someone will love you, just ignore it and talk to someone about this issue.
3. Don't get gloomy, just be happy and find ways to have that why bother mood, remember to always have a positive idea to who you're dating or trying to date.
4. Never ignore your Mom, It's this issue or problem since the 2000, a girl who deserves a older men means trouble Don't do it.
5. Waiting has it's own rewards, because of other people who aren't waiting it will be a horrible consequence, and don't say it should because it is.
Dating or lover requests are very unnecessary it's all the wrongful decisions you'll do, and if you decide to date and reading the how to books, dating books whenever you wanna start dating, talk to a friend or a family; they will always understand.
Anyone who wants to comment on my blog let me know.
And yes please comment to hear the feedback
My name is Latasha Hall, and I'm going to tell you about the 5 ways of stop this relationship stress or begging to be in a relationship so you won't have a painful heartbroken
1. Try to write some details on that one-day soulmate, instead of asking or begging on social media, it's considered to be an affection disorder or affection fansty
2. Don't always believe someone will love you, just ignore it and talk to someone about this issue.
3. Don't get gloomy, just be happy and find ways to have that why bother mood, remember to always have a positive idea to who you're dating or trying to date.
4. Never ignore your Mom, It's this issue or problem since the 2000, a girl who deserves a older men means trouble Don't do it.
5. Waiting has it's own rewards, because of other people who aren't waiting it will be a horrible consequence, and don't say it should because it is.
Dating or lover requests are very unnecessary it's all the wrongful decisions you'll do, and if you decide to date and reading the how to books, dating books whenever you wanna start dating, talk to a friend or a family; they will always understand.
Anyone who wants to comment on my blog let me know.
And yes please comment to hear the feedback
Tuesday, January 3, 2017
Part Two: How to enjoy that life and more, Finale
Well, this is my last thing to remember before I go:
Rule Nine: Is it okay to Flirt?
One of my Google plus buddies felt bad about flirting and saying he wasn't a good friend, in which isn't true. I have dealt with flirting twice, and in the end I didn't accept it at all. I reject them.
It's okay to flirt once in while, but don't over-do it or people will see right through you. And calling you names of who you are. It's alright, don't make it the end of the world thing. It's natural to feel a certain way. And Here's what you have do:
*Be okay for who you are: There's nothing wrong with, in fact you are just being straight up with yourself... And admitting it too can also bring that weight off your back and mind.
*Don't feel bad: Seeing what's going on with you? Isn't anything to be sad about, just smile because in the end of the day you will have a 100% pride. And being proud of your acceptance in your lifetime.
*Accepting the real you: That's something to be happy about, now you can accept the real person you are meant to be.
*And always smile: Admitting your true colors is how your friends can be happy for you, nobody will judge you just gotta feel confident to say in a proud voice. It helps you out.
Rule Ten: The Holiday blues
In the Single life, there will always be ways to avoid them, and even if we'd wished we weren't Here.
"I'm hear to say is "STOP!" We cannot control about the holidays or the people that has a lovely relationship with this certain person. It's their life, not yours. For years, being single has always been a target for holidays, I didn't enjoy like: Valentine's Day, New Year's Eve, and even Christmas, in which loving it. It's been a struggle to feel like the world has abandoned you for these holiday crisis. What is it that prevents us singles to have fun?
*Stress
*Anger
*bitterness(in which matches up to anger)
*Misery
*Sadness
These are the 5 reasons why we can't enjoy ourselves anymore.
And here's how to avoid them:
*Instead of Celebrating Valentine's Day with your friends, wear purple to make into Anti-Valentine's Day
* fix the Christmas diner, and then open up the presents to avoid mistletoe kissing. And look out the window.
*Just Stay home at the New Year's Eve, or go to a public place to celebrate it alone.
*Avoid the couple outfits for Halloween for those who has a problem with Halloween, and wear your outfit to the party and make an excuse to leave early.
If that doesn't feel right, and you can't do it... Just enjoy yourself with friends and family.
Finale Are you ready to say Goodbye to being Single?
Well.... If you're prince/princess asks to take it slow for years ahead of time, that means this is the final time to be single and you're ready to settle down at last. But there are some or many singles who refuse to give up the Bachelor/Bachelorette life, that's fine if you don't wanna be in a relationship, nobody is rushing you.
All my life: I had dealt with rejection, pain, shame, and loneliness. But, in these times that I felt truly alone, I've come to realize that my Family, Friends, Church family are there when no one else will, push come to shove that it's okay to be single, because life will be hitting you hard when you're at least excepting the hard world that we live in our whole lives; so don't go on it alone, there is alot of people who will understand your situation and hard times of becoming a single person.
But..... One day, we all will have someone in our every day life! Don't give up, and just enjoy being single,because who knows how long we will have it. ~Have a great week! :)
Rule Nine: Is it okay to Flirt?
One of my Google plus buddies felt bad about flirting and saying he wasn't a good friend, in which isn't true. I have dealt with flirting twice, and in the end I didn't accept it at all. I reject them.
It's okay to flirt once in while, but don't over-do it or people will see right through you. And calling you names of who you are. It's alright, don't make it the end of the world thing. It's natural to feel a certain way. And Here's what you have do:
*Be okay for who you are: There's nothing wrong with, in fact you are just being straight up with yourself... And admitting it too can also bring that weight off your back and mind.
*Don't feel bad: Seeing what's going on with you? Isn't anything to be sad about, just smile because in the end of the day you will have a 100% pride. And being proud of your acceptance in your lifetime.
*Accepting the real you: That's something to be happy about, now you can accept the real person you are meant to be.
*And always smile: Admitting your true colors is how your friends can be happy for you, nobody will judge you just gotta feel confident to say in a proud voice. It helps you out.
Rule Ten: The Holiday blues
In the Single life, there will always be ways to avoid them, and even if we'd wished we weren't Here.
"I'm hear to say is "STOP!" We cannot control about the holidays or the people that has a lovely relationship with this certain person. It's their life, not yours. For years, being single has always been a target for holidays, I didn't enjoy like: Valentine's Day, New Year's Eve, and even Christmas, in which loving it. It's been a struggle to feel like the world has abandoned you for these holiday crisis. What is it that prevents us singles to have fun?
*Stress
*Anger
*bitterness(in which matches up to anger)
*Misery
*Sadness
These are the 5 reasons why we can't enjoy ourselves anymore.
And here's how to avoid them:
*Instead of Celebrating Valentine's Day with your friends, wear purple to make into Anti-Valentine's Day
* fix the Christmas diner, and then open up the presents to avoid mistletoe kissing. And look out the window.
*Just Stay home at the New Year's Eve, or go to a public place to celebrate it alone.
*Avoid the couple outfits for Halloween for those who has a problem with Halloween, and wear your outfit to the party and make an excuse to leave early.
If that doesn't feel right, and you can't do it... Just enjoy yourself with friends and family.
Finale Are you ready to say Goodbye to being Single?
Well.... If you're prince/princess asks to take it slow for years ahead of time, that means this is the final time to be single and you're ready to settle down at last. But there are some or many singles who refuse to give up the Bachelor/Bachelorette life, that's fine if you don't wanna be in a relationship, nobody is rushing you.
All my life: I had dealt with rejection, pain, shame, and loneliness. But, in these times that I felt truly alone, I've come to realize that my Family, Friends, Church family are there when no one else will, push come to shove that it's okay to be single, because life will be hitting you hard when you're at least excepting the hard world that we live in our whole lives; so don't go on it alone, there is alot of people who will understand your situation and hard times of becoming a single person.
But..... One day, we all will have someone in our every day life! Don't give up, and just enjoy being single,because who knows how long we will have it. ~Have a great week! :)
How to enjoy that life and more.
In a world, where people have always try to understand the rough times when all singles in every situation puts us in a crammed situation. And there are some who asks fate or even desperate fortune tellers or even the universe for a sign. My name is Latasha, but sometimes I'm called Tasha, and just like a single person who refuses to find love or just want to be happy to have no relationship for 26 + years without no contact with a guy at all. Some guys on Social media are my guy pals, and being in College, going to dance practices, and most of all going to church on Sundays. And sometimes Wednesdays. I don't really have to time to be desperate, jealous, or even have the care for love.
Life can be pretty harsh, but it's not always easy dealing with the single life. No matter the age, we all have to remember what can happen in life stays with you forever. Love isn't a fairy tale nor a game to be playing in a game show or even airing on live TV. It's the world that we live in now. For most Single people, we cope in a positive way not in a hateful way, throughout my life, I always hated love because no one seemed too interested in me, and I became very angry at myself for having an issue with it. when I was a high schooler, I felt pressured to act desperate for someone to dance with me, but it never happened, in the real world we are gonna have to accept being single, why you ask?
because the relationship is real, but we aren't. Some calls us fake and some blames our loneliness on ourselves, I've been where you are now. And I still am in this reality world of ours.
But..... There is another way for us Singles to enjoy being lonely and have fun doing it.
Rule One: Never Blame yourself you don't like to talk.
As to being single, we have the luxury to have a wonderful life instead being all by yourself in the gala and drive yourself crazy if no one is not talking to you. It's really normal, not torture or agonize yourself in that situation.
Before : Acting scared, fear by rejection, or even feeling left out of the group.
After: Try to communicate and feel free to do some read, dancing or even look around the socializing with the friends you already have that makes you feel more confident, brave, agile, and very kind towards others.
Rule Two: Don't even talk to older men from another country.
People nowadays, likes to talk to younger women, and it defines in that one big word: Creepy, I know it's not a serious issue, but in reality prospective world it is happening now. Older men tend to flirt to women because they are going for the wrong types, instead of waiting for the right type of women.
Here's the signs warnings that we sometime miss but we need a little help, and here's how to know it:
(The words) If you see something is going to be strange or out of place just talk to a friend to understand better like: Sweetheart, dear, I love You, Kisses, or even behavior issues. Here are a quick few that you might do for yourself in the future:
*Say "No"!, it will be quicker than it has to be.
*Give him some reasons why you're not interested in him.
*Don't talk to him at all, call the police or talk to someone.
And if you are on Social Media like: Google+, Facebook, or Twitter.
Just Block that guy and delete or Archive the comments so people can see the true ugly colors.
Rule Three: Don't be in a rush to find love!
Okay, lots of people consider to do this bragging about the bf/gf relationship status on Social Media, and you have nothing to say about love because you're not in one. And it's very normal to feel that way, but remember these three steps:
Control: How we feel inside that can't be tamed, but needs to working in our favor
Determination: To figure a way to ignore the urge to find some stranger that you never met ask you out or forcing it.
Deal with it: Instead of trying to feel bad that you're not a gf or bf just be happy not to talk about it and move on.
Rule Four: Be happy for others.
We as lonely singles can't take the pain or strain of being happy for another person who is getting married, engaged, or in a relationship, because it's hard to enlighten on your painful memory of rejection. This year, more people get into a jealous frenzy to be unhappy and act a certain way that we cannot control. And Here's the "we should" and Instead:
We should : "I can't believe she gets to be married"?! "Why does everyone have a Partner but me?"
and even this: "It's not fair I waited for a long time, and nothing happening!" "I hate not getting married!"
Instead: "I'm glad, they are getting married, and my turn will come." " I hope that's me one day." " I can enjoy being single, wait for the right time."
That will make things easier for you if you have to be having a issue with being not married or engaged, just remember: "You're time will come, just wait for that perfect time.
Rule Five: Have fun as a single!
When we feel down, there's only way to have some fun, be with your friends! It's always a great way to stay positive on the single life, and here's some ideas how:
* Doing Activities like : Bowling, Golfing, Swimming, Paintball, Lazer tag, buggy jumping, Archery, Camping, Hiking, Dancing, skydiving, basketball, skiing, snowboarding, Ice Skating, going to the movies, eating out, surfing, sail boarding, scuba, and soccer.
Or
Doing some free-time on your own activities:
*Reading, poetry, watching documentaries, writing stories, studying, do some pottery, play a guitar, piano, or a flute. Write some songs, draw, paint, or making jewelry. Woodwork, exercise.
No matter what you do, just keep yourself occupied, and let no distractions stop you from doing any couple stuff. Keep being calm, and you can achieve all things in life.
Rule Six: Is it My fault?
The Answer to that question, that we ask every single day would in that same question: "Is it My Fault"? The Answer is..... No. It's not your fault, it's people who is the fault to our failing not in a relationship status quota. Life has a thousand-Million dollar questions and every turn there are those who fear to be in a relationship and the next thing you know we're in the hospital, wondering how did get in this mess. Did you know? That millions of people decide to commit suicide because we can't take the pain anymore of : Rejection, Hate, not interested, and yes even pushed away because we aren't pretty or good enough. That's called low self- esteem. We cannot outrun it, we can't hide from it, but it is there to make us feel pain and hurt. Always Remember:
*Don't Doubt: We are hurting ourselves in the end, when it's least excepted.
*Don't change: Change our body image by Botox, tanning, going to the fitness center every day. All those things will never make you happy, it will make you Miserable.
*Don't put yourself down: It hurts your family and friends if you really don't like yourself or hearing that, people in your life are gonna be there for you 24/7 even though you don't want them.
So before you hit in that ditch, think of the consequences that will happen. Every person and including yes you will be putting at Risk.
Rule Seven: Am I ready for a Prince/princess in my life?
Do you feel like you couldn't do this? Or feeling that you're not prepared for the relationship Status? Things will get better and less tougher on you! And what's we fear as singles for that time that has come and knowing it's hard to keep control of your heart that pumps real hard?
Here's the solutions:
~Breathe: It can ease the readiness in own bodies, and can also relieve the strain in our stress level; don't be breathing too hard or you'll get panicked easily.
~Relax: If you keep calm, the better it is for you and anyone else to lift up that weight on you.
~ Smile: Just be yourself and have fun.
Better? Good. I'm glad! And when he/she wants to talk to you Always:
* Start small on the conversation
*Understand him/her in that relationship
*Pick out the topics that you like or ask him/her what they like
*Meet up at a place where you feel comfortable.
Just remember to take things slow not fast or the other person will move on, and you have to wait again to calm yourself down and apologize. That is one way to do it.
Rule Eight: NO taking it in bed, Wrong!
We can be single as long as we want to, but do be careful! Because there are some who can't wait until they take you home to have sex, in which you have to avoid real fast if they aren't understanding your signals Here's five tips to avoid:
*Never wear sexy clothes: It will be a huge issue, and he/ she will cling to it no matter what you're doing, or how you wanna end your day. Wear simple dress with a jacket, no sleeveless dresses that turns on the guy for more flirting time.
* Reject the request
It's polite to say no, because you weren't raised up like that, or just wanna avoid it.
*Have an Excuse
Tell them that you're busy, and leave when it's time to go.
*Just don't react
As Men/Women, we can't help ourselves to do, it happens. Therefore, just go to the restroom and wash your face and sneak quietly without him/her noticing you had left.
*Just tell them
" No, I am a Women who will not do this inappropriate gesture with you break it off!" Or "I'm a guy who will not go with this outrageous gesture that you're offering, I'm ending this date Goodbye!"
Any way you to this, just make sure they understand it, and don't react to it. There is consequences to do this misbehavior: Pregnancy, Sexually transmitted diseases, Rape, or even just doing this for the fun of it. No it's never okay to go with them. Never! ~To be continued on Part Two Finale Being Single How to Enjoy that life and more.
Life can be pretty harsh, but it's not always easy dealing with the single life. No matter the age, we all have to remember what can happen in life stays with you forever. Love isn't a fairy tale nor a game to be playing in a game show or even airing on live TV. It's the world that we live in now. For most Single people, we cope in a positive way not in a hateful way, throughout my life, I always hated love because no one seemed too interested in me, and I became very angry at myself for having an issue with it. when I was a high schooler, I felt pressured to act desperate for someone to dance with me, but it never happened, in the real world we are gonna have to accept being single, why you ask?
because the relationship is real, but we aren't. Some calls us fake and some blames our loneliness on ourselves, I've been where you are now. And I still am in this reality world of ours.
But..... There is another way for us Singles to enjoy being lonely and have fun doing it.
Rule One: Never Blame yourself you don't like to talk.
As to being single, we have the luxury to have a wonderful life instead being all by yourself in the gala and drive yourself crazy if no one is not talking to you. It's really normal, not torture or agonize yourself in that situation.
Before : Acting scared, fear by rejection, or even feeling left out of the group.
After: Try to communicate and feel free to do some read, dancing or even look around the socializing with the friends you already have that makes you feel more confident, brave, agile, and very kind towards others.
Rule Two: Don't even talk to older men from another country.
People nowadays, likes to talk to younger women, and it defines in that one big word: Creepy, I know it's not a serious issue, but in reality prospective world it is happening now. Older men tend to flirt to women because they are going for the wrong types, instead of waiting for the right type of women.
Here's the signs warnings that we sometime miss but we need a little help, and here's how to know it:
(The words) If you see something is going to be strange or out of place just talk to a friend to understand better like: Sweetheart, dear, I love You, Kisses, or even behavior issues. Here are a quick few that you might do for yourself in the future:
*Say "No"!, it will be quicker than it has to be.
*Give him some reasons why you're not interested in him.
*Don't talk to him at all, call the police or talk to someone.
And if you are on Social Media like: Google+, Facebook, or Twitter.
Just Block that guy and delete or Archive the comments so people can see the true ugly colors.
Rule Three: Don't be in a rush to find love!
Okay, lots of people consider to do this bragging about the bf/gf relationship status on Social Media, and you have nothing to say about love because you're not in one. And it's very normal to feel that way, but remember these three steps:
Control: How we feel inside that can't be tamed, but needs to working in our favor
Determination: To figure a way to ignore the urge to find some stranger that you never met ask you out or forcing it.
Deal with it: Instead of trying to feel bad that you're not a gf or bf just be happy not to talk about it and move on.
Rule Four: Be happy for others.
We as lonely singles can't take the pain or strain of being happy for another person who is getting married, engaged, or in a relationship, because it's hard to enlighten on your painful memory of rejection. This year, more people get into a jealous frenzy to be unhappy and act a certain way that we cannot control. And Here's the "we should" and Instead:
We should : "I can't believe she gets to be married"?! "Why does everyone have a Partner but me?"
and even this: "It's not fair I waited for a long time, and nothing happening!" "I hate not getting married!"
Instead: "I'm glad, they are getting married, and my turn will come." " I hope that's me one day." " I can enjoy being single, wait for the right time."
That will make things easier for you if you have to be having a issue with being not married or engaged, just remember: "You're time will come, just wait for that perfect time.
Rule Five: Have fun as a single!
When we feel down, there's only way to have some fun, be with your friends! It's always a great way to stay positive on the single life, and here's some ideas how:
* Doing Activities like : Bowling, Golfing, Swimming, Paintball, Lazer tag, buggy jumping, Archery, Camping, Hiking, Dancing, skydiving, basketball, skiing, snowboarding, Ice Skating, going to the movies, eating out, surfing, sail boarding, scuba, and soccer.
Or
Doing some free-time on your own activities:
*Reading, poetry, watching documentaries, writing stories, studying, do some pottery, play a guitar, piano, or a flute. Write some songs, draw, paint, or making jewelry. Woodwork, exercise.
No matter what you do, just keep yourself occupied, and let no distractions stop you from doing any couple stuff. Keep being calm, and you can achieve all things in life.
Rule Six: Is it My fault?
The Answer to that question, that we ask every single day would in that same question: "Is it My Fault"? The Answer is..... No. It's not your fault, it's people who is the fault to our failing not in a relationship status quota. Life has a thousand-Million dollar questions and every turn there are those who fear to be in a relationship and the next thing you know we're in the hospital, wondering how did get in this mess. Did you know? That millions of people decide to commit suicide because we can't take the pain anymore of : Rejection, Hate, not interested, and yes even pushed away because we aren't pretty or good enough. That's called low self- esteem. We cannot outrun it, we can't hide from it, but it is there to make us feel pain and hurt. Always Remember:
*Don't Doubt: We are hurting ourselves in the end, when it's least excepted.
*Don't change: Change our body image by Botox, tanning, going to the fitness center every day. All those things will never make you happy, it will make you Miserable.
*Don't put yourself down: It hurts your family and friends if you really don't like yourself or hearing that, people in your life are gonna be there for you 24/7 even though you don't want them.
So before you hit in that ditch, think of the consequences that will happen. Every person and including yes you will be putting at Risk.
Rule Seven: Am I ready for a Prince/princess in my life?
Do you feel like you couldn't do this? Or feeling that you're not prepared for the relationship Status? Things will get better and less tougher on you! And what's we fear as singles for that time that has come and knowing it's hard to keep control of your heart that pumps real hard?
Here's the solutions:
~Breathe: It can ease the readiness in own bodies, and can also relieve the strain in our stress level; don't be breathing too hard or you'll get panicked easily.
~Relax: If you keep calm, the better it is for you and anyone else to lift up that weight on you.
~ Smile: Just be yourself and have fun.
Better? Good. I'm glad! And when he/she wants to talk to you Always:
* Start small on the conversation
*Understand him/her in that relationship
*Pick out the topics that you like or ask him/her what they like
*Meet up at a place where you feel comfortable.
Just remember to take things slow not fast or the other person will move on, and you have to wait again to calm yourself down and apologize. That is one way to do it.
Rule Eight: NO taking it in bed, Wrong!
We can be single as long as we want to, but do be careful! Because there are some who can't wait until they take you home to have sex, in which you have to avoid real fast if they aren't understanding your signals Here's five tips to avoid:
*Never wear sexy clothes: It will be a huge issue, and he/ she will cling to it no matter what you're doing, or how you wanna end your day. Wear simple dress with a jacket, no sleeveless dresses that turns on the guy for more flirting time.
* Reject the request
It's polite to say no, because you weren't raised up like that, or just wanna avoid it.
*Have an Excuse
Tell them that you're busy, and leave when it's time to go.
*Just don't react
As Men/Women, we can't help ourselves to do, it happens. Therefore, just go to the restroom and wash your face and sneak quietly without him/her noticing you had left.
*Just tell them
" No, I am a Women who will not do this inappropriate gesture with you break it off!" Or "I'm a guy who will not go with this outrageous gesture that you're offering, I'm ending this date Goodbye!"
Any way you to this, just make sure they understand it, and don't react to it. There is consequences to do this misbehavior: Pregnancy, Sexually transmitted diseases, Rape, or even just doing this for the fun of it. No it's never okay to go with them. Never! ~To be continued on Part Two Finale Being Single How to Enjoy that life and more.
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